Rediscover Your Strength.
Renew Your Soul. Reignite Your Calling.
You Were Created to Thrive - Not Just Survive
Most leaders never get the help they truly need. You’re used to carrying the weight, but over time that weight wears you down. What started as a calling can feel more like a burden.
You find yourself asking:
- Why am I so disconnected from God, myself, and others?
- Why is my marriage suffering?
- How do I lead when I’m not okay?
Without guidance, every leader gets stuck and things go downhill. Emotions build up and erupt in harmful ways. Relational conflict escalates out of control. Our spiritual life becomes entangled with unforgiveness, blame, guilt, and shame.
Are you ready to grow in relational connection, emotional peace, and spiritual fulfillment?
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Explore proven, Christ-centered pathways to renew your leadership, relationships, and soul - so you can thrive in every area of life.
LEADERSHIP COACHING
Unlock the clarity, confidence, and calling you need to lead with purpose. The Fully Formed Leader Journey isn’t just coaching - it’s transformation from the inside out. Through proven frameworks and Spirit-led guidance, you’ll grow in spiritual, emotional, and relational health so you can lead from wholeness, not hustle. Get the encouragement you need to thrive in long-term Kingdom impact.
ADVENTURE TRIPS
Step away from the noise and into the wild. These faith-based backpacking, canoeing, and survival skills trips are designed for Christian men who need renewal, clarity, and connection. Through challenge, solitude, and sacred conversation, you’ll rediscover your heart and re-align your life with what matters most. This is a spiritual formation journey in the backcountry - where God speaks and life is awakened.
MARRIAGE CARE
Strengthen your most important relationship with Gospel-centered guidance. Whether you’re feeling disconnected or stuck in painful patterns, Christian marriage care offers the clarity, tools, and support you need to reconnect and rebuild. Through faith-based wisdom and the safety of guided conversation, couples experience healing, forgiveness, unity, and reignited love.
SPIRITUAL DIRECTION
Get unstuck and reconnect with God through an accompanied journey of the soul - organized around Scripture, prayer, journaling, and honest conversation. Whether you're feeling dry, distant, or unsure of your next step, this Spirit-led practice creates space for clarity, healing, and renewal. This is ancient and biblical model of Christian soul care is for anyone longing to grow in their identity in Christ.
SABBATICAL COACHING
Step away to rest, reflect, and realign. This guided sabbatical journey offers coaching, spiritual direction, and soul care for executives, pastors, and ministry leaders who need refreshment and renewal. You'll receive the structure, support, and space to recover your heart and return refreshed for your next season of impact.
STORY WORK
Trauma doesn’t heal on its own - it must be named and processed in the presence of kindness. Through guided story work, you’ll explore past wounds that still shape your relationships, identity, and leadership. With compassionate support, you’ll learn to write, understand, and redeem your story - moving from shame to honor, stuck to free, shattered to hope.
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Meet Matt Kessler
Hey - I’m Matt. I’m so glad you’re here. I offer Gospel-centered guidance to help Christian men grow in spiritual, emotional, and relational health. Whether it’s through leadership coaching, spiritual direction, marriage care, online courses, or wilderness adventures - I walk with men who want to live, love, and lead with greater purpose.
For over 28 years, I’ve served as a pastor, church planter, regional leader, and missionary bishop in the Anglican Communion. I’ve planted churches, launched nonprofits, led teams, and taught leaders around the world. I’m a certified leadership coach, spiritual director, and wilderness survival instructor - and I love helping men rediscover who they are in Christ and what they’re called to do.
I’ve been married to Amanda for 25 years, and we’re raising three amazing kids - ages 21, 17, and 15 - alongside two energetic Australian shepherds.
What People Are Saying...
Mike,
Pastor
“Matt has been instrumental in providing real counsel and direction to help me and my team navigate difficult leadership situations. Matt has the ability to help leaders see through the “circumstantial mess” to the real roots of a problem. Through genuine care and concern, with real leadership acumen, he is able to help leaders alter their perception of a situation, in particular their own gifts and flaws, and to see their true identity in order to maximize their leadership potential and lead from a place of freedom and joy.”
Jordan and Katherine
Marketing Director, Psychologist
“Matt fostered growth and connection in our relationship, helping us to build a strong foundation for marriage. Matt offers a skill set that is unique from other counselors. His deep knowledge of the biblical foundations of marriage brought us both closer to God as we grew together as a couple. Matt’s allowed space for us to address differences and challenges in a way that felt safe and productive. Most of all, Matt’s authenticity, humor, and genuine care for us as a couple made the time that we spent with him something we looked forward to each week.”
Melinda
Director of Training for Explorers Bible Study
“Bishop Matt Kessler profoundly impacted my life and leadership growth trajectory through his corporate teaching, one on one mentoring and leadership and spiritual development courses. He equipped me with formational frameworks and tools to lead myself and provide healthy, servant leadership to others. I regularly review my notes for sharpening, shaping and sharing with others across cultures and around the globe.”
Melissa
Small Business Owner
“Matt helped me learn how to be a more effective God-centered leader. I grew in an understanding of my strengths, but Matt also effectively shed light on how much I was letting my weaknesses hold me back. With Matt’s help, I learned how to identify the strength and contribution of members of my team and how to augment my team’s overall performance. I’ve greatly grown as a leader.”
Jay
Pastor
“Matt Kessler help me unpack the hidden contents of my heart and reassemble the forgotten pieces of my story. Week after week I discovered my story, how God has been intimately orchestrating my life from the very beginning, molding me inside and out by His grace, to partner with Him in my created role in His story.”
Luke
Pastor
“One of the most formative parts of my sabbatical was the spiritual direction and coaching I had from Matt. Matt’s leadership and shepherding of me through my time away was deeply impactful in helping me reconnect with the Lord, with my wife, and with my own heart. Matt is an extraordinary sabbatical coach and I would insist on any pastor going into a season of rest to entrust their care and guidance to Matt.”
Gloria,
Potter
“I so appreciate Matt’s leadership. He helped me process pain from my past and guided me to a deeper healing and knowledge of who I am in Christ. I felt valued!! I gained the confidence to look at myself through the eyes of my God-given identity, and I was inspired to further God’s Kingdom!”
Selso
Pastor
“My time together with Matt has been invaluable. The environment that he creates has been safe and inviting. I have grown in areas that were a blind spot. There has been so much physical and spiritual healing. I am also grateful for his heart for the well-being of my marriage, and now my wife and I are in a great place. I am thankful for his love and support.”
Hunter
Analyst
“I would highly recommend Spiritual Direction with Matt. Beforehand, I felt lost, spiritual asleep, and desperately needing to grow in my relationship with Christ. As I followed Matt’s helpful guidance through scripture reading, journalling, and prayer - my relationship with Christ grew. Matt took the time to really listen and shepherd me with loving care and aid in my spiritual growth.”
WHAT YOU'LL GAIN...
A clear path forward to grow in your identity, freedom, and impact - so you can live, love, lead with strength in Christ.
CLARITY
Know who you are, what you're called to do, and the next step to take.
CONNECTION
Build life-giving friendships, accompanied by a trusted guide who truly sees and cares for you.
ALIGNMENT
Live in sync with your God-given design. Embrace your identity and purpose with confidence.
TOOLS
Strengthen your leadership, deepen relationships, and build rhythms that last.
RESTORATION
Experience renewal in your heart, marriage, and ministry where it's needed most.
COURAGE
Lead with boldness, grounded in peace, purpose, and freedom in Christ.
Start your journey toward greater wholeness, competency, and Kingdom impact today!
YOUR NEXT STEP
You don’t have to stay stuck in your faith, distant in your marriage, or uncertain about your next step as a leader.
Whether you're craving clarity, healing, or direction, your next step matters - and it starts with a simple conversation.
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Schedule a free 30-minute Zoom or phone call to share your story, name what’s not working, and explore a clear path forward that’s tailored to your needs.
Because the life, leadership, and relationships you long for begin with saying yes to your next step.
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